Once you know what you love, the resale scroll gets a whole lot easier and you can shop more mindfully and sustainably. Here's how to translate your style into secondhand strategy.
Shopping secondhand without a clear sense of your style can feel like walking into a bookstore with no idea what you like to read. There’s plenty of inventory, but not all of it is for you.
Of course, this is part of what can make secondhand shopping so fun! Browsing, exploring, and trying on styles you never would have thought to look for can be a great way to discover new styles and find hidden gems. But it can also lead to a wardrobe full of items you like, but don’t feel like you.
Whether you’re building a new wardrobe or fine-tuning the one you’ve got, secondhand shopping is far more effective when it’s guided by your personal style. It helps you cut through the noise, focus on what you’ll actually wear, and avoid the trap of buying things that feel exciting in the moment but don’t work long term.
Here’s how to connect your personal style with how you shop secondhand to build up a closet that feels personal and intentional.
Step 1: Get Clear on Your Style Priorities
Before you start searching or scrolling, take a moment to name what you want more of in your wardrobe. You don’t need a perfectly labeled aesthetic, but you do need a few working signals.
Start with questions like:
What outfits make me feel most like myself?
What silhouettes, fabrics, or colors do I naturally gravitate toward?
Am I dressing for ease, polish, movement, softness, structure?
You might land on phrases like “clean basics with a tailored edge,” “romantic and textured,” or “neutral layers with a little drama.” These aren’t rules; they’re filters. The clearer you are, the easier it becomes to recognize what fits your style and what’s just noise.
This is also when you should be reflecting on what to pass on. Take a look at items in your closet you haven’t reached for in the past 6-12 months. Why did you buy them? What did you have in mind at the time?
This can help you identify possible gaps between your aspirational style versus your true style, which is an important check on your shopping impulses. Maybe you’re drawn to bright colors, but you feel more comfortable wearing neutrals day to day. Or you might naturally gravitate to thrifting jackets, but you end up wearing the same 2 jackets you really love.
This process isn’t meant to exclude you from shopping any particular category, but it should help you check yourself. “Am I excited about this item because it’s really me? Or do I just like the idea of it?”
Step 2: Know What Works Secondhand
While not everything is worth buying resale, many of the best wardrobe pieces are! Here are a few secondhand standouts that tend to align well with personal style priorities:
Tailored pieces: Blazers, trousers, structured coats, and denim jackets are often high-quality and lightly worn on the resale market.
Natural fabrics: Think wool, cotton, silk, and linen: durable, breathable, and easy to evaluate secondhand.
Statement items: Dresses, special-occasion pieces, or vintage finds that reflect your aesthetic without overcommitting.
Core basics: Button-ups, tees, cardigans, and denim in your ideal fit or wash
Remember to filter all these categories through your personal style priorities. Don’t buy linen just for the sake of it- only if you love the look and feel! Same with blazers and wool sweaters. Curate a list of core pieces that you wear often and feel great in, and look for those.
Skip the temptation to buy resale just because it’s cheap. If it doesn’t align with your style or fill a gap, it’s clutter.
Step 3: Translate Your Style Into Searchable Terms
Most secondhand platforms rely on keywords and filters. That means your style needs a language that fits the system.
Let’s say your style is clean and minimal with neutral tones and oversized silhouettes. Your search terms might look like:
“oversized wool blazer,” “boxy cotton tee,” “tan trench coat,” or “taupe wide-leg trousers”
If your style leans soft and romantic, try terms like:
“puff sleeve blouse,” “lace midi dress,” “wrap skirt,” or “silk camisole”
And if your vibe is vintage-inspired or eclectic:
“high-rise Levi’s 501,” “plaid wool skirt,” “70s blouse,” or “crochet cardigan”
Don’t forget to search by fabric or cut if that’s part of your style identity. “100% linen,” “bias cut,” or “raw hem” can narrow your results meaningfully.
Not sure where to start or how to articulate your style? Pick a few pieces in your wardrobe you love and wear often, and find those exact items on Depop or Poshmark. Take a look at how the seller describes them and any hashtags used as a good starting point.
Step 4: Build a Style-Specific Wishlist… and Wait on it
Secondhand shopping is easier (and more rewarding) when you’re working from a list. Instead of browsing endlessly, identify a few pieces that would genuinely round out your wardrobe. Prioritize items that:
You’ve already worn in similar versions
Pair with at least three things you already own
Fill a function or add dimension to your current style
For example:
A style minimalist might hunt for a perfectly structured navy blazer and wide-leg jeans in raw denim.
A 90s-inspired dresser might search for a vintage leather jacket and slinky slip dress.
A texture-lover might look for a mohair cardigan or raw silk button-down.
Your wishlist doesn’t have to be long, but it should be aligned. When you shop with intention you’re less likely to end up with beautiful pieces you never actually wear.
You might be asking, how do I know the items on my wishlist actually align with my personal style? How do I separate what I really want from what I see trending? The secret here is to put your wishlist to the test by waiting on it.
Keep an actual wishlist on your phone or in a journal, and write the date you add any new item to the list. (ex: June 1 - brown leather loafers.) Then browse slowly for the perfect pair of brown loafers. Don’t rush it! A shopping wishlist is almost never urgent; you can afford to put your list away for a week or two.
As you browse over the course of days or even weeks, you might come across outfit inspiration or other styles that you’re drawn to more than the brown loafers. You might even revisit your list to put a new item on it and realize that you’d totally forgotten about the brown loafers. That’s a sure sign you never really wanted them in the first place.
The biggest dead giveaway that an item matches your personal style? You don’t stop looking for it. If winter is long over but you’re still pausing to look at every camel trenchcoat? If it’s been months of wishing you had a pair of white jeans in your closet? It’s probably a good investment.
Step 5: Use Filters Strategically
Once you’ve built your style wishlist, use platform filters to narrow your options:
Size filters help you skip disappointment. (If your sizing varies by brand, filter generously or save a few known-fit labels.)
Fabric filters help you stick to your comfort and quality goals.
Color filters reinforce your palette, whether you’re going for muted earth tones, crisp black and white, or soft pastels.
Condition filters help you avoid unnecessary repairs unless you’re up for DIY.
Use saved searches or alerts if available, especially for wishlist items that may take time to show up.
Pro tip: Keep in mind, filters are only as good as the item information entered by sellers. Especially on peer to peer platforms, it’s all too easy for a user to incorrectly fill out a field or to leave information blank, like fabric type. If you’re struggling to find what you’re looking for, try relaxing some filters to see what comes up.
Step 6: Style First, Price Second
Secondhand can be a steal… but don’t let the price drive the purchase.
Just because something is 70% off retail doesn’t mean it belongs in your closet. Make sure it aligns with your style, fits your body and your life, and feels like something you’d be drawn to even at full price.
Ask: Would I still want this if it weren’t such a “good deal”? That one question can filter out a surprising number of almost-right purchases.
Let Style Lead
The best secondhand wardrobes aren’t built by luck. They’re built by people who know what they like, know what they need, and use resale as a tool, not a gamble.
When your personal style drives the search, secondhand becomes a strategic way to expand, refine, or experiment. Don’t let secondhand be an excuse to buy more; use it to buy smarter.